We are used to chatting up to 10 hours daily until exams came. He had already gotten used to our everyday conversations that each time I spoke of going offline to study, he found it unbearable. To occupy himself, he started looking for another girl to keep him company. I’m sure that’s one of the reasons he cheated.
There was a day I asked him about those girls and he was like how will he block them; that do I want boredom to kill him. I didn’t know he already had something with them.
This makes me feel insecure so I don’t spend long hours reading anymore cause I’m always trying to create time for him everyday; that’s one distraction.
Now the little time I’m supposed to spend reading, he always asks for us to see. Even today after we saw in church from morning till about 3PM in the afternoon, he asked me to visit him in the evening regardless but I refused.
He really doesn’t get the fact that I have exams and that’s a distraction. I’ve also gotten very fond of him now. I really can’t stay 3 straight hours without trying to reach him and it’s not helping me. The few times we would agree that I stay offline and study; I’d still chat him up or try to call him and it doesn’t help me study at all.
I don’t know how to handle any of these anymore.
Please help me